Thoughts on First Event 2020
Well, it’s finally happened. After a year of being out as a transwoman in public, but only making brief references to it throughout Invisible Blog, I’m finally dedicating an article to part of my lived trans experience! Not sure the far right/fascist demographics will take it well, but you can’t please everyone.
So as the title suggests – I attended First Event in that liminal space between January and February of 2020. First Event is, in the organizers’ own words, “…one of the longest running conferences in the U.S. for transgender and gender expansive people and those who love and support them.” All good stuff. This wasn’t my first time attending First Event; I went last year, when I’d been out to the public all of one week, but this year, I was not only able to attend more of its events, but also had the opportunity to present my own workshop! I ended up presenting on what it was like to be transgender in the tech industry; if you ask me, I have the personal experience required to appear authoritative on the topic.
This was my first time giving a business/workshop-type presentation, so I was admittedly nervous. I arrived in the nick of time, only to find I had various technical SNAFUs – a laptop with failing wifi (solved by a tether), a misbehaving electrical outlet (solved by plugging into another wall), and a missing projector (which took a while to arrive in a form I could use). That being said, I was able to push through and have a good discussion with the people who arrived. A few points I remember that came up:
- Major corporations are getting better about treating their gender expansive/LGBTQ+ employees with respect and dignity (though there’s a long way to go).
- Transfeminine folk potentially have to deal with more entrenched sexism than transmasculine folk.
- Tech/IT companies sometimes find creating trans-inclusive policies extraordinarily difficult (read: StackOverflow).
Firefox’s default spellcheck dictionary isn’t quite ready for the gender-inclusive language that I need to make these themed blogposts really sing.
Besides being a chance to host a workshop and hand out business cards, First Event was also a chance to meet new friends and spend time with old ones. Now, my trans friends are mostly yuppified urban professionals – not far from my age, more or less well off, probably not especially representative of the trans community as a whole. The organizers of First Event have spent substantial resources on attracting as diverse a swathe of the trans community as possible, and it showed at times. Still, I noticed a particularly large demographic of older, whiter, more affluent, and transfeminine people attending the conference. This is probably a result of First Event’s history. First Event is hosted by the Trans Club of New England. That organization was formerly known as the “Tiffany Club”; it started as a support group exclusively for transwomen in the 1980s, and a very secretive one at that. In their defense, the average person’s understanding of transgender people was… not particularly enlightened back then. It’s kind of fascinating seeing that history written across the community gathered at First Event, but I suspect the ratios will become less skewed over time.
Ultimately, I enjoyed my time at First Event 2020 and feel that I learned a great deal. This isn’t exactly a review, but if you want to take it as an endorsement, feel free.
Recommended tracks: – just kidding. First Event did, however, organize its various workshops into “tracks”; for example, one aimed at transmasculine people, one aimed at transgender youth, one aimed at corporate allies, etc.